It is sad that sex surveys show that only about 10 % of women have ejaculation orgasms. These types of female orgasms are intense and profound. Unfortunately, most men have little knowledge about how to give their lovers these types of amazing orgasms.
The G-spot is a spongy area along the upper wall of a womans vagina. Generally, you find it by sliding your finger on the upper wall of the vulva, about 1 inch in. Make sure your lover is turned on and wet before finding the g spot. The distance inside the vulva can vary with different women.
Generally, the texture of this spot is different to the other areas of the vulva. It usually has a texture like a walnut. However, just to confuse men, some women have a smooth texture.
A few weeks ago I was talking to a male friend about G Spot massage. In our discussion he told me that the G spot does not exist. This made me sad as it is my experience that when a womans G spot is stimulated, she can have orgasms after orgasms leading to gushing orgasms.
Many women get an urge to urinate when they are very aroused by G spot stimulation . They resist this urge and block the ejaculation response. Sometimes they can get ejaculation responses going down their legs.
Men can also give negative feedback about their womans body fluids too. The ejaculation fluid can be cups for some females and has been tested in laboratories and the composition is not urine.
However, many women have stored fear and deep negative emotions in the G spot area. When this area is touched or massaged they feel nothing or it can be painful etc The man has to be very sensitive in this case.
The best way to achieve gushing orgasms is by combining oral sex and g spot massage. I have put together a simple guide to help men become skilled at giving gushing orgasms at cunnilingus techniques
Monday, 30 November 2009
Friday, 27 November 2009
The G Spot, How to Send Her Over the Edge
Does the mythical G spot exist? Ask any satisfied woman that has experienced the kind of deep orgasm that they say the G spot gives them, and you will get a resounding Yes!
First of all, the name. G spot? What is that? The G spot is named for Ernst Grafenberg, the German physician that described it for the first time in 1950.
The G spot is located on the outer wall of the vagina, about one and a half to two inches up. It's about halfway between the pubic bone and the cervix. The G spot can be described as a spongy bean that swells to about the size of a half dollar when stimulated.
Normally a womans orgasm is thought to come mainly from the stimulation of the clitoris. But many women describe a second type of orgasm, deeper and more intense than a clitoral orgasm alone. This deeper, more intense orgasm is thought to come from stimulation of the G spot.
You can help your partner reach this deeper orgasm by starting to notice and sensing differences within her vagina. During clitoral stimulation, you may feel some rhythmic clenching of the vaginal walls. By switching to stimulating the G spot, in a way that is comfortable to her, you may start to feel a different kind of contraction, deeper within the uterus and deep pelvic muscles. Now by alternating back and forth between the G spot and the clitoris in a rhythmic pattern, again in a way that is comfortable for her, you can help produce contractions and orgasms that are both vaginal and uterine.
Although this may take some practice at first, (but who's complaining?) the payoffs for your partner, and you can be enormous. Women who have experienced this type of orgasm report that they are just below the point of having an orgasm for 24 hours!
First of all, the name. G spot? What is that? The G spot is named for Ernst Grafenberg, the German physician that described it for the first time in 1950.
The G spot is located on the outer wall of the vagina, about one and a half to two inches up. It's about halfway between the pubic bone and the cervix. The G spot can be described as a spongy bean that swells to about the size of a half dollar when stimulated.
Normally a womans orgasm is thought to come mainly from the stimulation of the clitoris. But many women describe a second type of orgasm, deeper and more intense than a clitoral orgasm alone. This deeper, more intense orgasm is thought to come from stimulation of the G spot.
You can help your partner reach this deeper orgasm by starting to notice and sensing differences within her vagina. During clitoral stimulation, you may feel some rhythmic clenching of the vaginal walls. By switching to stimulating the G spot, in a way that is comfortable to her, you may start to feel a different kind of contraction, deeper within the uterus and deep pelvic muscles. Now by alternating back and forth between the G spot and the clitoris in a rhythmic pattern, again in a way that is comfortable for her, you can help produce contractions and orgasms that are both vaginal and uterine.
Although this may take some practice at first, (but who's complaining?) the payoffs for your partner, and you can be enormous. Women who have experienced this type of orgasm report that they are just below the point of having an orgasm for 24 hours!
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How To Give A Woman An Orgasm
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The second step to give a woman an orgasm is to realise that during vaginal intercourse the nerve endings of the mans penis are stimulated but not the nerve endings in a womans clitoris. It is said that only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through normal vaginal intercourse.
There is also a place inside the vagina that if stimulated is guaranteed to give your woman an orgasm. It is called the g-spot. It is difficult to find the g-spot and stimulate it in the correct way.
Vaginal intercourse, stimulation of the clitoris by means of fingering, oral sex, vaginal intercourse whilst stimulating the clitoris and vibrators are all ways that you can give a woman an orgasm. If you want to know exactly how you can give a woman an orgasm you can use these 6 Simple Steps.
1. Relax and Enjoy
Women view sex as an emotional and a physical experience and are generally not as easily arounsed as their partners.
It is important that they don’t feel like sex objects for male gratification, so take time to be considerate and let your partner know you really care.
Female orgasm definitely comes from the mind as much as the body (in some cases even more so.)
2. Foreplay
To relax your partner you need to have plenty of foreplay. Keep in mind there are MANY erogenous zones apart from the obvious ones. Some including even the back of the knees.
To give a couple of examples 80% of women don’t believe that their partners kiss them enough, so do it. Another great erogenous zone is the neck; kissing or nibbling it will drive your partner wild with desire
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